Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Bunz -The Accidental Pit Bull that Changed My Life

i have always liked dogs, and rescued many as a child (cats too), but i really never knew anything much about the american pit bull terrier.  i just liked dogs.


while i was in college, i met a couple who had two dogs.  the dogs were lovely, friendly and full of personality, but i had no idea they were pit bulls.  i just didn't think to ask.  as i grew to know the couple and the dogs more, i REALLY fell in love with them (the dogs)....a small black female and a larger, almost boxer looking brindle male.  at one point, i did ask, 'what kind of dogs are these' and the response was - they are pit bulls.  i was shocked!  this was not what i imagined a pit bull to be, but i was already in love with them so luckily any stereotypes i may have had were overshadowed by the personal experience i had with these friendly, fun loving pups!


at some point, they decided to breed the male (something i am VERY against now, but remember i was just a young buck myself)...so of course i wanted a pup.  i called home and told my mom that all i wanted for Christmas was this puppy, Bunz.  my mom was hesitant, and rightfully so, not only did i want a dog (was i really ready to handle that?) but i wanted a pit bull.  her immediate reaction was...'so so' at best.






so i set forth at researching the breed, so i could have all my facts straight and really understand where these dogs were from and what they were about.  what i found surprised me even more.  pit bulls, though they were used in fighting, were bred for certain characteristics, most notable - LOYALTY, LOVE OF OWNER, AND NEVER GIVING UP.  loyalty - they will do anything for their owners and are one of the most truly bonded dogs i've ever met.  love of owner - they will do anything to please, especially if it means getting positive attention (hugs and kisses, and a stamp of approval).  never giving up - they are tenacious in spirit and never let you down.


that sounds awesome right?! - a dog that is more loyal than any friend you'll ever have, will do anything to please you, and will never give up in that pursuit!?


unfortunately, these are the same qualities that 'backyard breeders' and 'fighting gangs' exploit and use against these dogs.  


but, i digress....i told my mom what i found, i begged and pleaded, and finally she said yes.  the best thing that had ever happened to me!  i got my Bunzy - the love of my life, who stayed true to every one of those qualities above plus a million more!  to name a few - dignified, attentive, gorgeous, full of personality, soulful, cuddler, and a goofball (i could go on and on....).  


so, there began my story with Bunz, him a whole 8 weeks old and me a ripe 18 or 19.  ha!  the 13 years i spent with him meant more to me than anything else...he taught me so much, he helped me grow and learn acceptance and tolerance, and he made me an advocate for the breed.  in many ways he saved me.  he most certainly changed me - and i wouldn't be saving animals if it weren't for him.






tomorrow is the anniversary of Bunz's death so i wanted to give a prelude to how and why i ended up, somewhat accidentally, with a pit bull, and why it's so important to me.


God bless my Bunz at the rainbow bridge.

3 comments:

  1. aww Catherine. I am getting a little emotional over here reading about your Bunz:) Such a handsome lad and I am so glad he came into your life and inspired you to make a difference in some dogs lives...
    reminds me of the starfish story
    Original Story by: Loren Eisley

    One day a man was walking along the beach when he noticed
    a boy picking something up and gently throwing it into the ocean.
    Approaching the boy, he asked, �What are you doing?�
    The youth replied, �Throwing starfish back into the ocean.
    The surf is up and the tide is going out. If I don�t throw them back, they�ll die.�
    �Son,� the man said, �don�t you realize there are miles and miles of beach and hundreds of starfish?
    You can�t make a difference!�
    After listening politely, the boy bent down, picked up another starfish,
    and threw it back into the surf. Then, smiling at the man, he said��
    I made a difference for that one.�

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  2. Oh Catherine, I'm Teary yet again! Great post! And you should recall that your love for Bunzy is the reason I have Cena;) Remember me coming to you worried to death because Ryan wanted a pitbull puppy. I was so concerned about pairing a pit pup with my beloved Dalmatian. And your love for Bunz was so apparent that it calmed my concerns and opened my mind, and here I am today with two of the most loyal pups I could ever have! Thank you and thanks to Bunz!! XOXO

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  3. this is real. this is how it happened and i'm so glad i inspired even just a few people to take a chance on these dogs. my whole, heart, and soul, is wrapped up in saving them. thank you both - crystal and jennie - for always supporting me.

    and jennie - i refer to that story quite often...it keeps me going.

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